In a situation where you don’t get along with your boss, you can move to another place of work. If you have big problems with your neighbors, you can move to another house.
When you have many obstacles with your spouse, there’s the option of getting a divorce. However, if you do not fit in with your children, you can not run away from them. The only beautiful option that is available is to view them as profound spiritual teachers.
The naughty children for example, are deep teachers of patience. A series of deep lessons that cannot be given by holy teachers or holy books. And this may happen, when the parents diligently and sincerely put children as angels without wings, who are here to elevate the parent’s soul.
Friday, 22 April 2016
Friday, 15 April 2016
Life as a Beautiful Song
"Too much of complaining, lack of singing", that is the dominant
characteristic of many souls who are restless and sleepless. Whenever they
shared their story, the only message that they keep sharing are only
complaints. Very few of them who realise that complaint is a kind of
psychological poison that one keep pouring into the inner soul.
If they do not improve their behavior, as a matter of time these restless
souls will experience a disturbing depression or even dangerous diseases.
Before it comes into reality, it is worthy to contemplate again and again to
significantly reduce the amount of time spend in complaining and at the same
time spending more time in singing.
To be honest, when we choose our point of view it is also means that we
choose our own future. Whenever our point of view is full of complaints and
protests, it means that we choose a series of future which is full of problems
and disturbances. Whenever our point of view is thankful and grateful, this
mean that we chooses a future which is full of love and light.
Friday, 8 April 2016
The Smiling Eyes
In the life of the commoners, eyes are the only organ which help us to see. But for the high-level spiritual seekers, like the samurai in Japan, eyes are swords which are much sharper than the ones that are made of wood or iron.
This story leaves a simple spiritual legacy, eyes can be used for the purposes which are far broader and deeper than just to see. In the world of soul healing, the eyes deeply help soul healers in the long journey of healing.
As can be seen in many meditation sessions, many meditation students cry even before they share their story. Some of the crying meditation disciples even came from a long distant countries. They have no ideas about who the teacher is.
After deep contemplation (for a long enough time) the eyes, which are full acceptance and understanding, keep sending beautiful vibrations and peaceful aura, which can make people easily cry. It is like the experience of meeting a mother who has been lost for countless years.
Friday, 1 April 2016
Beautiful Garden Of Light
"A deep longing for light", that's the dominant
feature of many dark souls in this age. Some people are even travelling to
distant places chasing for light, paying the very high price in order to meet
the bright light.
Very few of the spiritual seekers realize that family can also be transformed into a
beautiful garden of light. Mainly through the consistency and the sincerity to
always forgive, accept and love each other.
Every spiritual friend who has been married to their life partner
for more than a quarter of a century understand, when we fall in love in young
age, we fall in love with "the ideal image", which we created in our
mind about the person whom we love. We did not love them as they were.
Friday, 25 March 2016
The True Holiday
The Western societies in general loves vacation very much. Some even go to
a distance places like Bali, spend a lot of money to enjoy their holiday. Among
the many attractive industries, the one that continuously grow is tourism
industry. In a short conclusion, vacation is one of the very attractive
activity to the modern people.
In order to make the soul balance, it is very healthy to spend time
in vacation. There are serious times to work, there are relax times for
vacation. There are times, when people tend to be stressful, there are times
when mind tend to be peaceful.
The combination between the two can make the soul grow not too far from the
state of being balance. A series of soul training which makes the soul grow far
away from stress and depression, and at the same time can make the soul much
more mature and full of light as well.
Friday, 18 March 2016
Sharing the Light
A medical doctor in the West wrote a beautiful book "the extraordinary
healing power of the ordinary things". In a short conclusion, there are a
lot of small and ordinary things that appear to be trivial, small, simple but
proved to have remarkable healing effect.
It can be a prayer, worship, singing, smiling, walking in the open air,
singing with the children, walk hand in hand with parents, enjoy the sunrise,
smiling with deep gratitude at sunset, taking good care of the garden, thankful
smile to the blooming flowers, feel the joy of jumping dolphins or running
rabbits, love animals and many more others.
In short, whatever the daily activities that are done with full of smile,
full of love, full of deep gratitude, it can give a profound healing effect.
The logic is very simple. Every souls who often do good things to anyone or
anything, there is a deep feeling of being meaningful and useful arise within.
Friday, 11 March 2016
The Lights of Hugging
"The souls who are rarely touched and hugged", that's the
dominant feature of many restless and angry souls. They are not only less
touched by the arms, they are also less touched by the touching actions like
kindness, sincerity and honesty.
Parents who are too busy to earn a living, the school which is full of
problems, leaders who are care only for their interest have created
psychological and spiritual environment which make life like dry season here
and there. That is the reason why there are dry souls everywhere who are
thirsty of attention and compassion.
And the dry season of life is not a moment to burn a fire by producing a
lot of anger, but rather an invitation to sprinkle the holy water of hugging,
acceptance and compassion as much as possible.
Not many people who are blessed to be as famous as Mother Teresa, not many
people who are blessed to be as bright as Nelson Mandela, or as humble as
Mahatma Gandhi, but all people bring the small candles in the heart,
which is ready to be kindled anytime and anywhere.
Therefore, no matter how small our candle is, let's begin to turn the
candle in a place where there is less wind. And to be honest, that place is
family. Mainly because family is a social environment where we know each others
deeply.
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