The Beautiful City That Makes You Happy

In the history of modern cities, it has been noted, that for too long humans "happiness center" is located too far from their family. Some people like the night world, some love to go to the mall, some became workaholics spending so much time at the office and also at social organizations. The results have been noted through; suicide rates, divorce rates, drug victims and penitentiary residents which are all increasing.

Campuhan Deep within

In places where the river kissed the beach beautifully, or two rivers merge into one, the elders of Bali gave the name of the place Campuhan. Many shrines have been established there. Of course there is a beautiful spiritual message hidden there.

The river is a symbol of the small and selfish self. The self who likes to be called better than this or that. At the same time it is the part of the self which is easy to get injured because of small reasons. And the ocean is the symbol of the Supreme and Great Self. A place where all things are processed into a beautiful blessing.

Making Wife Beautiful

 Here and there, there is a rising number of divorces, here and there. there are rising suicide rates, here and there the inhabitants of mental hospitals are also rising. And it is not right to criticize this or that, but an invitation to do something to make our current rebirth more useful and meaningful.

And one of the social units in the community that has the potential to be invited to cool the violence is family. Especially because the cool family has the potential to make the community cool as well. Moreover, family is similar to the port for ships, similar to airports for aircrafts. A cool place where deficiencies can be processed into materials of growth.

Referring to a number of works on the psychology of relationships, the psychological sides of the husband-wife relationship, it is important to recognize two instincts. Firstly, is the mother instinct (an instinct that is inherently owned by any mother) that settles in each wife. Secondly is the heroic instinct (instinct of heroism) which is naturally stored in each husband.

High Quality No

"You can be a good person and say no at the same time", that is one of the old messages. Especially in this day and age, without the courage to say no, even many holy souls fall. It sounds impolite to put an example in this case. If we mention names, it's even less beautiful spiritually.

As material of contemplation, there is low quality of no, there is also high quality of no. If someone is offered drugs for example, then sharing the bad sides of people who sell drugs everywhere with anger and hatred, that's one example of a low quality no. It is not only dangerous to the person who sells drugs, but also can create danger to the one who shared the story.