Some spiritual friends whose souls grow old understand that when they were young, they were attracted by skin deep beauty. Eyes, lips, nose, favorite shirt color, style of speech are some of the outer things on the surface that makes immature souls attracted to each other like metal pulled by a magnet.
And once souls grow rich after being deceived here and there, being fooled from one place to another, by then someone begins to force themselves to look into a far deeper beauty behind the skin. As has appeared many times in the meditation sessions, some friends who find their spouse in the meditation session bring simple but profound lessons.
Friday, 28 July 2017
Friday, 21 July 2017
Beautiful Flower Inside
"Am I
normal?", that's a client's question to a psychologist in the West. This
question was very touching. Especially because behind this question is hidden
doubts, fears and sadness. Deeper than that, there is self-rejection. A series
of rejections that can grow into suffering and illness.
At different
levels, all human beings have this type of doubt and fear. It is a long result
of people's scolding, insults, humiliation and criticism for decades. To
provide a gift of understanding, in developing countries education is something
new, the awareness of psychological and spiritual sides of life are also new,
even friends in the West who are touched by education much earlier also experience
something like this.
In plain
language, people are called normal if they are compatible with most of the
norms of society. To the extent that society supports the growth of the soul
within, a normal title like this is required. Sadly, many members of society
are not sensitive enough to understand, that their words and deeds can easily
hurt the others souls. As a result, the normal title of another person can be
very harmful.
Friday, 14 July 2017
The True Friend
True friend is a very close family which is chosen by
the heart, that's one of the old and sacred legacies of Tibetan elder. While
biological families (parents, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts) are given
without being able to choose, but the true friends are naturally chosen through
a long selection process of the heart.
This message is very important especially in the midst
of the rapid rise of divorce rates everywhere, the meaning of family getting
narrower here and there (it includes only husband, wife and children), the
number of people who have sympathy and empathy for others are decreasing
everywhere, the presence of true friends is truly needed. Without the presence
of a true friend in old age in particular, life would be like a dry and arid
garden.
For that reason, it is important to open the eyes of
sensitivity as soon as possible, to see the people around who have the
potential to be transformed into true friends. The golden moments that often
help in this regard are the cycles of times when life fall into a deep valley
of shortcomings and limitations.
Friday, 7 July 2017
Loosening the Grip of Mind
Being gripped
so fearfully by the mind, that is the main characteristic of dangerous souls.
In the moment when they are sure that they are true, then they dare to destroy
the lives of many people. In the time when they do not see any truth in the
other's religion, then those people send explosive bombs. Whenever they think
that they have no guilt, then they stop the marriage. These are stories of the
journey of dangerous souls from time to time.
Spiritual
seekers who are blessed to see the clear and the clean souls inside, will
deeply understand that violence, anger and chaos are not the temptations of the
devil. But it is the result of the strong grip of the mind. To put it more
precisely, a mind that has not been touched by the beautiful light of
meditation. A mind which is full of duality such as sad-glad, sorrow-joy and
wrong-right.
Before the
same spiritual chaos visits you, it's worth contemplating on the following
three meditative materials, especially to make the grip of the mind loosen from
time to time. The first material of contemplation, every time you meet people
learn not to feel more important than the others. Either because of wealth,
social status, fame or education. Whenever you meet people, throw away all
forms of thoughts that make you feel higher than the others.
Like a
spinning wheel, a higher person on this day will be lower on another day.
Beautiful flowers at one time will become rubbish at other times. Beautiful
faces at a young age will be wrinkled in old age. Either you like it or not,
either you perform rituals or not, that is the law that works in nature.
The second
material of contemplation, no matter how accurate your information is, no
matter how clear your logic is, keep reminding yourself that logic and head are
not everything. Borrowing the old heritage of philosophers, truth is like a
broken mirror. And the fragments are scattered everywhere. Not only in your
head and your religion, but also in the other people's heads and religions.
To be honest,
when it comes to reality, people are like the three blind men who hold three
different parts of the same elephant body. The blind person who holds the
elephant's trunk will think that this is snake. The blind man who touches the
elephant's feet suspect that this is a trunk. The blind man who leans on the
body of the elephant will think that it is a wall.
While the
strongly gripped mind will asks "who is right among the three?", a
clear and clean mind will silently asks: "what kind of creatures in which
in one part resemble a serpent, on the other part is like a trunk, while in
another corner is shaped like a wall? ". This is exactly what is called
thinking in synthesis. Not being paralyzed by analysis.
The third material
of contemplation, in the West there is an old phrase like this: "learn to
use someone else's shoes." To put it more simply, whenever you feel
disturbed inside - either offended or humiliated - leave some space to feel the
pain of the others. Especially because when you're hurt, the one who hurts you
also has pain inside.
On the path
of compassion, the disciples are recommended to always see the network of
suffering behind the harming enemies. It can be a wounded childhood, immature
parents, or a school which is full of problems. In short, the injuring person
does not stand alone. They are closer to "victims" of violence rather
than an actor of violence.
After deeply
embodying these three materials of contemplation, slowly but surely the grip of
the mind will relax from time to time. The good signs are simple, the lips are
no longer easily speaking the negative sides of the others. Emotion is no
longer easily burned by harsh words. And the mind begins to be able to rest in
the silent space between the two ideas. With such a soul garden inside,
naturally a person will grow into a beautiful soul.
Author: Guruji Gede Prama.
Photo Courtesy: Twitter @Drc_19.
Proofread By: Kirsty Spence.
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