A number of friends who are entrepreneurs complain that there are many
business opportunities actually, but it is very difficult to find people who
can be trusted to be able to lead the company. As a result, many business
opportunities simply pass solely because of the scarcity of well-trusted
people.
This story implicitly bring a simple message, in this age to find clever
people is easy. There are abundant supply of clever people everywhere. But when
it comes to find person with beautiful heart, there are saddening scarcity
everywhere. Especially those who are beautiful in service, beautiful in
attitude, beautiful in deeds.
Hearing a story like this, a teenager asks: "what is beautiful
heart?". Look deeply inside when you know that your old friends who like
to cheat in school later is appointed as professor, if you can smile without
envy, that is a seed of beautiful heart.
Look deeply inside when you hear stories that your friends who are far more
stupid than you in university become successful and wealthy people. If you do
not say something bad about these friends, you feel even happy inside because
of their happiness, that's beautiful heart.
Feel deeply inside when those people who have hurt you win as governor in
public election. If you do not make any bad comment on that person, otherwise
you feel happy because he will become a regional leader, that's beautiful
heart.
The homework then, how can we develop beautiful heart? One day there was a
little boy who came to balloon seller. When he saw that the blue balloons can
fly, this boy asked innocently: "is the blue balloon can fly as
well?". The balloon seller softly whisper: "it is not the color
outside that makes the balloon fly son, but something inside".
In other words, the work of developing beautiful heart is an inside job.
For that reason, whatever your daily life calling - from working to praying -
learn to look deeply inside yourself. While the ordinary person are being
dragged away by the negative emotions such as anger, in this way every time
there is movement in thoughts and emotions, learn to take a distance, be a
witness, and finally let them to pass according to their natural nature.
Anyone who diligently practice like this, do not give up easily, slowly
there is a distance between that person with the thoughts and the emotions.
Some clever people who are so attached to their mind, they will be burned
inside when their ideas are rejected. Some grumpy people who are gripped by
their emotions, they can be easily burned within when people disagree against
them.
Spiritual seekers who deeply and diligently practice to be a compassionate
witness to all movements of thoughts and emotions, one day they can have a
broad mind, which is as wide as space and ocean.
As the natural nature of water which is wet, the natural nature of sugar
which is sweet, the natural nature of broad mind is to give birth to beautiful
heart. The most important sign is simple, you can be happy to see the other's
happiness.
Author: Gede Prama.
Photo Courtesy: Twitter @StellaTesori.
Photo Courtesy: Twitter @StellaTesori.
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