Being hungry for attention, being thirsty to be heard, that is the
characteristics of many friends whose body and soul are seriously ill. In the
moment when there is someone who provide themselves to listen and to pay
attention, it is so obvious that the faces of the ill look brighter and
fresher.
Ideally the one who perform this task is family. Sadly, many families have
been very busy to pursue money. To many spiritual friends who are deeply ill,
they have been given a message like this: "when no one gives you flowers
of attention, learn to give yourself flower of acceptance".
In other words, whenever the environment is lack of attention, you still
have a close friend who can take good care of yourself genuinely, and that
person is yourself. And this can only happen when you take good care of
yourself as well.
A woman who was not only recovered but also attaining the state of
wholeness, she wrote a beautiful message like this: "when I love myself as
it is, life blooms into a beautiful flower". This is not only experienced
by this woman, it has been experienced by many inner inquirers.
To take good care of the garden, to raise animals, to sing and play with
the kids are some of the ways which are suggested in this case. All spiritual
friends whose souls have blossomed already will understand, when we take good
care of people or other beings, we are not only lessen the other's burden, we
also heal ourselves. In a much more beautiful language: " Laughter is the
cheapest healer, love is the deepest healer".
In Tantra, it has been written a message like this: "when the in
breath and the out breath are in balance, one attain a self sustaining
energy". The main characteristic of friends who are deeply ill, the out
breath tend to be longer than in breath. As a result, they keep experiencing
deficit of energy.
And the thing which is responsible to this deficit energy deficit is a
tendency to throw a lot of energy through anger, envy, jealousy, the feeling
that no one take good care of you. At this point, meditation is extremely
important.
"Meditation heals you by accepting yourself as you are", that is
a message which is often heard in meditation sessions. Do not talk about
goodness and perfection, even anger is accepted in meditation.
Let's take a look at the blooming beautiful flowers. In each beautiful
flower there is non flower elements. We can not drop the non flower elements
such as waste, clouds, sun shine. Healing happens when one learn to accept both
the flower of goodness and the waste of anger as well. Keep in the heart
beautiful souls: "even darkness is an evolving light".
With this approach in mind, souls are not only healed but also whole. This
kind of beautiful souls are naturally share light everywhere. In the way eyes
to look at the others, in the way lips to smile, in the words which are used in
daily life, these beautiful souls keep emitting the light. In the depth of the
deep, there has bee heard a beautiful message like this: "Love is another
name of smiling light".
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