One
day Nasrudin asked God, why his wife is such beautiful. The Lord gently
replied: "that's why you choose her". "My wife is not only
pretty my lord but also soft", Nasrudin continues his inquiry. Again God
answered with soft message: "that's why you choose her". This time
with a deep apology, Nasrudin softly asked the last question: "why my wife
is such stupid?". Again, the Lord replied gently : "that's why she
choose you"
Being Friend of Yourself
This
is the characteristic of people who rarely hear the song of peace, there's
always elements of life that need to be discarded. Borrowing from in-depth
research on humans who cause serious problems such as the radicalism, when
someone attacks another person, part of other's life that is attacked is the
same as the most hated parts of him/herself. Let's take anger as an example,
when someone attacks the grumpy he/she actually hate his/her own anger.
A
number of in-depth study on radicalism show, they assume that they are going to
be attacked. What is hidden behind this assumption is the insecure self, the
inability to be the friend of self. As a result, they always suspect every
others movement. At the end, life can easily be burnt. That's why, many healers
agree, behind all disease and pain there is always the element of self-denial.
The harder a person deny him/herself the worse the suffering.
Inspired
by this, every friend who want to be healed and peaceful, learn to be the good
friend of yourself. Especially being the good friend of shortages, bad luck,
imperfections. This friendship will not just stop your fighting against
yourself, it also stops the pain that you inflict on others. In the language of
a good friend : "when I love myself enough, life begin to blossom in a
beautiful way".
Garden of Life
Similar
to parks, life outside and inside are always rich in color. Outside there are
Americans, British, French, etc.. Inside sometimes we are happy sometimes we
are sad. And the seed of peace is to accept the fact that life is rich in
color. Meditation or not, life still rich in color. There are so many students
who refuse their jumping mind in meditation. They try to replace jumping mind
with a single color of calmness. And the more they reject the more chaotic
their mind.
For
that reason, many students of meditation have been suggested to receive the
fact that life is colorful. Embrace differences of color as a mother embrace
different children. It is similar to sun that shining to all without
discrimination. And this seed of peace then watered by love, fertilized by
compassion. Only one who loves him/herself then can be loved.
Many
students of meditation who are sick, are suggested to accept even sickness. The
beauty of having disease, it makes a person being careful in life. Being
careful in eating, drinking, thinking. Let's take one who is attacked by
bronchitis as an example. Bronchitis force someone not to smoke, being careful
of dusty weather. When the signs of this disease are read, the input is used to
live in a more discipline way, then one can heal him/herself due to illness.
Pencil of Peace
Not
many people who are cured, then having a chance and willing of serving others.
Mother Teresa is one of the rare soul. When she was asked about the essence of
her life, she shortly reply like this: "I am only a pencil in the hand of
God". Mahatma Gandhi is another rare soul. In front of his students he
often advised: "The fastest way to rediscover yourself is to forget
yourself in the service of the others".
As
experienced by many inner travelers, after recovering from hostility toward
oneself, there is usually a natural energy that comes from within. It is the
sincere intention to serve the others. It is as sincere as coconut trees that
grow on the hot beach, as genuine as pine trees which grow in the cool
mountains. This energy of sincerity then give birth to baby of service. Not the
ordinary service, but service as part of oneness.
Anyone
who has experienced oneness like this understand, every movement of life is
like a pencil which writes poetry of peace. Work, prayer, service are all write
poetry of peace. It is as simple as singing birds. Whether they are listened or
not, whether they are liked or not, birds keep singing. This is the true song
of peace.
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