Beautiful Garden of Soul

Following the explanation of Shiva Tantra part one in Besakih temple, and Shiva Tantra part two in Jati temple at Batur last year, in the beautiful night of Shivaratri on January 8th 2016 at 19:30 Bali time will be explained Shiva Tantra part three in the beautiful temple of Uluwatu.

While the focus of Besakih temple session is Parama Shanti (ultimate peace), the focus of Jati temple session is true home, in Uluwatu the focus is family as the beautiful garden of soul. Especially because in our age family is a well-fertilized garden where souls can grow deeply and beautifully.

There are three women whose marriage with three Balinese men collapsed. The first lady comes from Russia, the second one is Japanese and the last one is from Jakarta. Having listened to their story with full empathy, by then the secrets of how a person should start a family are opened. The point is very simple, one who is dirts within will meet flies even in heaven, one who is flower within will meet butterfly even in hell.

The guiding light then is simple, every young people who want to start a family are advised to start with beautiful heart. That is why the first of Shiva Tantra message that will be delivered in Uluwatu is like this: "look at all beings lovingly". To make it simple, choose a life partner who enable you to look with loving eyes.

Every friends who have spent more than a quarter of century getting married with the same partner understand, we do not always grow to the same direction. Sometimes we grow toward the opposite direction. At this point family lovers need Shivaji next command: "Feel the others as if you feel yourself". There are more families that can be saved if we can feel the others in the same way we feel ourselves.

Some teenagers think that marriage is like entering a restaurant where people just find delicious foods. This kind of perspective should be reconsidered again and again. Mainly because marriage does not only contain joy but also sorrow. Marriage does not only contain happiness but also sadness.

And similar to spices for cooking. Chili is of course spicy, salt is certainly salty, garlic can make eyes sore, but if you can mix them appropriately, you can have delicious food. In the same way, if you are skillful in managing the family, sorrow and sadness can make family strong and beautiful. Much deeper than that, pain can transform family into beautiful garden of soul.

That's why the third Shivaji command that will be delivered in Uluwatu temple is like this: "no matter what happen my love, always dissolve into beauty". In a simple language, learn to look at the beautiful sides of daily life.

The beauty of having very demanding wife, you take the course of being patience everyday. The beauty of having grumpy husband, your soul is purified and perfected everyday. The beauty of having naughty children, they make you rise in love.

In summary, growing up in the world of family is far from easy. But if you are intelligent and careful to always dissolve into beauty, one day you will find family as beautiful garden of soul.

Author: Gede Prama.
Photo Courtesy: Twitter @Drc_19.

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