Meeting Soul Mate

Once upon a time, a young son asked his father about the characteristics of women who deserved to be his wife. With great confidence, the old father told his son about the importance of a beautiful face, her coming from a well-respected family, having a good career and being willing to sweep the floor when the maid is not available.

This view reflects the characteristics of souls who have the potential of their relationship collapsing. They only want advantages, they do not want any disadvantages. Only accepting perfection, but removing all imperfections. They just like the beautiful aspects of the others, and reject any of the ugly aspects.

Angels Without Wings

In a situation where you don’t get along with your boss, you can move to another place of work. If you have big problems with your neighbors, you can move to another house.
When you have many obstacles with your spouse, there’s the option of getting a divorce. However, if you do not fit in with your children, you can not run away from them. The only beautiful option that is available is to view them as profound spiritual teachers.

The naughty children for example, are deep teachers of patience. A series of deep lessons that cannot be given by holy teachers or holy books. And this may happen, when the parents diligently and sincerely put children as angels without wings, who are here to elevate the parent’s soul.

Life as a Beautiful Song

"Too much of complaining, lack of singing", that is the dominant characteristic of many souls who are restless and sleepless. Whenever they shared their story, the only message that they keep sharing are only complaints. Very few of them who realise that complaint is a kind of psychological poison that one keep pouring into the inner soul.

If they do not improve their behavior, as a matter of time these restless souls will experience a disturbing depression or even dangerous diseases. Before it comes into reality, it is worthy to contemplate again and again to significantly reduce the amount of time spend in complaining and at the same time spending more time in singing.

To be honest, when we choose our point of view it is also means that we choose our own future. Whenever our point of view is full of complaints and protests, it means that we choose a series of future which is full of problems and disturbances. Whenever our point of view is thankful and grateful, this mean that we chooses a future which is full of love and light.

The Smiling Eyes

In the life of the commoners, eyes are the only organ which help us to see. But for the high-level spiritual seekers, like the samurai in Japan, eyes are swords which are much sharper than the ones that are made of wood or iron.

This story leaves a simple spiritual legacy, eyes can be used for the purposes which are far broader and deeper than just to see. In the world of soul healing, the eyes deeply help soul healers in the long journey of healing.

As can be seen in many meditation sessions, many meditation students cry even before they share their story. Some of the crying meditation disciples even came from a long distant countries. They have no ideas about who the teacher is.

After deep contemplation (for a long enough time) the eyes, which are full acceptance and understanding, keep sending beautiful vibrations and peaceful aura, which can make people easily cry. It is like the experience of meeting a mother who has been lost for countless years.

Beautiful Garden Of Light

"A deep longing for light", that's the dominant feature of many dark souls in this age. Some people are even travelling to distant places chasing for light, paying the very high price in order to meet the bright light.

Very few of the spiritual seekers realize that  family can also be transformed into a beautiful garden of light. Mainly through the consistency and the sincerity to always forgive, accept and love each other.

Every spiritual friend who has been married to their life partner for more than a quarter of a century understand, when we fall in love in young age, we fall in love with "the ideal image", which we created in our mind about the person whom we love. We did not love them as they were.

The True Holiday

The Western societies in general loves vacation very much. Some even go to a distance places like Bali, spend a lot of money to enjoy their holiday. Among the many attractive industries, the one that continuously grow is tourism industry. In a short conclusion, vacation is one of the very attractive activity to the modern people.

In order to make the soul balance,  it is very healthy to spend time in vacation. There are serious times to work, there are relax times for vacation. There are times, when people tend to be stressful, there are times when mind tend to be peaceful.

The combination between the two can make the soul grow not too far from the state of being balance. A series of soul training which makes the soul grow far away from stress and depression, and at the same time can make the soul much more mature and full of light as well.

Sharing the Light

A medical doctor in the West wrote a beautiful book "the extraordinary healing power of the ordinary things". In a short conclusion, there are a lot of small and ordinary things that appear to be trivial, small, simple but proved to have remarkable healing effect.

It can be a prayer, worship, singing, smiling, walking in the open air, singing with the children, walk hand in hand with parents, enjoy the sunrise, smiling with deep gratitude at sunset, taking good care of the garden, thankful smile to the blooming flowers, feel the joy of jumping dolphins or running rabbits, love animals and many more others.

In short, whatever the daily activities that are done with full of smile, full of love, full of deep gratitude, it can give a profound healing effect. The logic is very simple. Every souls who often do good things to anyone or anything, there is a deep feeling of being meaningful and useful arise within.